Bat Mitzvah Party Venues in Bergen County, New Jersey

by Jennifer Sobek

A Bat Mitzvah, meaning "daughter of the Commandment," is a coming-of-age ceremony for Jewish girls where they reach spiritual maturity. Reform Jewish girls celebrate at their 13th birthday, while Conservative and Orthodox Jewish girls celebrate when they are 12 years old. While the service is typically held in the temple or synagogue, the after party is usually held at a special venue. Bergen County, New Jersey, has a plethora of such places.

The Rockleigh

Located on Paris Avenue in Rockleigh in northern Bergen County, this elegant venue can accommodate a large private party in the Grand Pavilion. The Rockleigh's ( menu will please any palate. The cocktail menu items range from an international cheese table to a fresh fruit display. The dinner menu is just as vast, including items such as hot and cold appetizers, golden seared chicken breast, filet mignon and potatoes au gratin. Kosher menus are available for the occasion.


The Landmark (, located on Route 17 South in Rutherford, can accommodate more than 100 people in its several ballroom/banquet halls. The rooms include large dance floors, which have ample room for everyone to dance the night away. The venue also has a special Kosher Bar/Bat Mitzvah menu. The large cocktail menu includes items like seafood, pasta and an oriental grill. A loaf of challah bread is also provided for the ceremonial prayers over bread. Other menu items include a fresh fruit table, grilled vegetables, whole smoked whitefish, Nova Scotia lox and menu selections for teens including chicken fajitas and hamburgers. As of June 2011, the venue also ensures that if you invite at least 80 adults to the event, 50 children will be free.


Biagio's Ristorante (, located on Paramus Road in Paramus, features five private party and banquet rooms that can accommodate between 20 to 150 people. The facility has five separate party packages, including sit down dinners and buffets. Menu items range from several kinds of pasta dishes to carving stations. There is also fresh fruit, salads, cheese and vegetable platters and soup. The banquet rooms have a mahogany bar and large granite dance floors. If desired, the venue can also accommodate a Kosher menu.


Aptly named, the Waterside ( is located on River Road in Edgewater and overlooks the Hudson River. The venue's Hudson View Room, perfect for a cocktail hour, provides a breathtaking view of the New York City skyline. The Waterside has two large ballrooms can accommodate between 50 and 210 people and has granite dance floors and a state-of-the-art lighting and sound system. Cocktail menu items include salad, seafood, pasta and carving stations and Viennese dessert tables. Some of the dinner menu items include appetizers such as lobster ravioli, salads, entrees like chicken and Chilean Sea Bass and several kinds of desserts. The venue can also accommodate a Kosher menu for the occasion.

About the Author

Jennifer Sobek has been a writer since 1993, working on collegiate and professional newspapers. Her writing has appeared in the "Copperas Cove Leader Press," "Fort Lewis Ranger," "Suburban Trends" and "The Shopper News," among others. Sobek has a Bachelor of Arts in journalism from Rowan University.